The Giver of Stars

✨"You know what's really wonderful about those fireflies? Sure, they live for just a few weeks. Not much at all in the grand scheme of things. But while they're there, the beauty of them, well, it takes your breath away. You get to see the world in a while new way. And then you have that beautiful picture burned onto the inside of your head. To carry it wherever you go. And never forget it."
"Maybe that's the thing we need to understand, Alice. That some things are a gift, even if you don't get to keep them." ✨
~My favourite passage from The Giver of Stars.

It's 1937 in small town Kentucky, and several outspoken, strong women are just trying to do their jobs - bring books to remote impoverished mountain families - but they're met with constant opposition. Based on true events, The Giver of Stars looks at not only the lives of the Packhorse librarians, but class, race, equality, domestic abuse, passionless marriages and justice.
I appreciated the feminism throughout this book, including how Margery didn't have a need to get married, and lived her life apologetically.
Alice wasn't afraid to stand up for herself when others criticized her for not being pregnant.
This memorable read had interesting characters struggling with timeless issues I'm sure we can all relate to.
Does anyone else enjoy when it's more than just romance?

Several of us on booksta just did a group buddy read and created this bookstasolidarity.
Pictured:
@booksandlemonade @kylieisreading @readgenerate @grim_reads @theocbookgirl @mom.who.reads @glitterandplato @melizreads18 and I'm in there.☺️ 
Thank you for doing this fantastic collage Jaymi @theocbookgirl!💜

I received The Giver of Stars in an Instagram giveaway win, thank you @bookswritingandmore💜.

Until next time,

Kara 

The Girl with the Louding Voice

 

All 14 year old Adunni wants to do is go to school. But when her mother dies, her father sells her to become the third wife of an old well-off man. 

Adjoa Andoh brings Adunni to life with her emotional narrating. She also plays the other characters so well, with variety, even the men. I was in awe when she produced such a low, menacing tone of voice for Big Daddy. What talent! While listening, I thought I couldn't imagine reading this novel. Hearing the Nigerian dialect was for me, so helpful and vital to the story.
I loved Adunni's strength and positivity, even when she's in the most devastating situations. She had sass & class, and discovers her feminism. What a strong female character!

In our North American culture, it's difficult to imagine, let alone understand child marriage, domestic slavery, and exploitation. They are dealt with in a sensitive, yet realistic manner in this novel.

To say this is a tear jerker is an understatement. I also shook with anger, and cheered with joy. The Girl with the Louding Voice has it all.
A story with pain, love, and tension, told by a captivating narrator, makes this amazing audio.
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Until next time,

Kara

Daisy has Autism

For April, Autism Awareness Month, I read Aaron J. Wright's non-fiction Daisy has Autism. 

Arthur brings home to his wife Annie and son Charlie a Labrador puppy from an animal shelter, and life with Daisy begins.  

It was fascinating to hear about Daisy's behaviours that lead Arthur to suspect autism, like lining up the tennis balls, making no eye contact, and not interacting with other dogs. I could feel the frustration and concern when Wright details the horrific boot camp experience, and unsuccessful attempts to go for walks. Just as more and more people are being diagnosed with being on the spectrum, I wonder if it's the same with our pets, that an autism diagnosis will become common. 

"Both Daisy and Magda were mostly internalizers, generally incapable of displaying the normal outward signs of distress like barking or screaming only when in full duress." said Wright. "For them, adrenaline meant it was time to inhibit, not excite." 

Something else I also wondered about was if how the dog park bullies pick on the periphery dogs was a foreshadowing to future schooling for Magda...

Arthur describes his easy spontaneous social life before Magda getting together with friends. But after Magda, "In essence, we as a family had become autistic, our social capacity functionally diminished. Our events had to be planned, discussed, and put on Magda's picture schedule as well as on her poster-sized calendar mounted next to the front door." Unplanned trips meant tantrums or shutdowns. Their daily routine couldn't be ambiguous. This is something quite familiar with a nephew of mine who has Asperger's. 

The long and torturous process of testing Magda for placement into special education at school was difficult to read, demonstrating to me how stressful and emotionally draining it was for their family. 
Just when you think you've heard it all, and that things couldn't possibly get worse for them, it does. It all left me thinking the Davis school system showed such unprofessional disregard because they didn't have the money for special education. The YUSD website even stated how they needed to limit the number of special education children. Their solution was to put kids with special needs in regular classes to fend for themselves. It's downright scary how they predetermined Magda wouldn't get any help.

Poetry and a three act play are also in the book. Arthur shared a couple of touching poems about an IEP team meeting and Magda's school's reaction to a bullying incident. The anger and utter frustration was definitely felt in their friend Feather's spoken word poem about how her son with autism was treated by his school.

Arthur pointed out, imagine if he took blood pressure of Magda's tester and lied about what actually it was in his medical record.   
The insinuation is that autism isn't life threatening, when it is, because Magda's at risk for self-injury, and as with others with autism, has a higher suicidal risk. 
Most people have coping skills when stressed, but Magda deals with it by harming herself.

Theory of Mind was a fascinating chapter with Arthur zeroing in on all the household sounds as a way of identifying more with Magda since "as is true with autism, everything shares equal volume, and not one nerve impulse is less important than another." 

Perhaps the most heartbreaking moment was to hear from Magda herself, telling her dad her brain was crying and then at another time, how it's hard to have friends.

I'm left with many thoughts from reading Daisy has Autism, mainly outrage towards the Davis school system. I also have hope though that this book has helped to spark them to change their testing, placement and teaching of special education children. No small feat, but it sounds overdue. I feel such sadness over the continued misunderstanding of autism, and think we've got a long way to go. Ultimately, I smile when I think of how fortunate Magda is to have Arthur and Annie as her parents. 

I received Daisy has Autism from author Aaron J. Wright - thank you.

https://www.daisyhasautism.com/


Until next time,

Kara 

Lake Town

Lake Town Nicole M. Burrell 

Ryan's life is spiraling out of control. She is struggling with a mysterious illness, has lost both of her parents, and even had to watch the man she loves fall for her best friend. More and more, she finds herself hiding out in her lakeside childhood home, soaking up the peace its familarity brings. 

Then one day, it is gone. The lake, which stood outside the cottage her entire life, does not exist. In its place stands a prison camp called Lake Town. When Ryan's curiosity drives her into the camp, she meets a captivating inmate named Adams who helps her uncover a deep layer of corruption within the prison. She decides she has to do something about it, but the question is... how?    

The disappearance of your secluded home and appearance of a prison. An undiagnosed illness that leaves you tired and sore. Your long time love marrying your best friend. An Old family enemy cropping up again. 
Some bizarre and troubing circumstances that Ryan finds herself in in Lake Town. I liked her take-no-crap, sassy personality, and was always interested in finding out what would happen with her next. 
When Ryan discovers a prison in her backyard and meets an intriguing prisoner Adams, I thought, alright, things are going to perk up in her safe, hum drum life. 
What's really going on in Lake Town, and why Ryan can't stay away from the prison is the hidden mystery.

Lake Town was suspenseful, and had the right amount of tension without being over-the-top. 
Oh, I'm definitely #teamadams. 
This was the kind of story that left me wanting more. I hope there will be a sequel! I can also easily picture it on the screen. 

I received Lake Town from author Nicole M. Burrell, thank you.

Until next time,

Kara 

American Dirt

"Terror is more immediate than grief."

What I look for in an audio book is a dramatic story told by a skilled narrator. A unique set of circumstances that takes me right there, where I can feel the characters joy or pain. 
I'd like to share some of the moments that resonated with me in American Dirt, starting with the quote I opened with: "Terror is more immediate than grief." That line stuck with me, because after the massacre, I did wonder how Lydia could even function, let alone react so quickly. 
How Lydia's father's death "acted like a measuring stick for Lydia. It calculated the depth of Sebastien's character." I understand how, as Cummins wrote, tragedy can cement a relationship. 
Lydia's refreshing honestly about motherhood. As much as children are your life, she admits to needing space and time away from her child. 
The way Lydia realized who Javier was to her now: when he squeezed her fingers, she smelled formaldehyde, and saw his lenses spattered with blood. 
The eerie foreshadowing of the beautiful Soledad, how "her presence is a vivid throb of colour," a "living miracle of splendour" - and a real problem. 
These are among the many instances that made American Dirt a memorable experience for me. 

I appreciated the group discussions we @travelingsistersread had last month on Goodreads, and thank you all for that.

While I realize the migrant problem is a very heated & sensitive political and cultural topic, I'm not down with book shaming or author bashing.
Something extreme critics of this book could consider is whether this story helped bring to the forefront the serious issues migrants face a lot more than harm Mexican culture. 
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I received American Dirt in an Instagram giveaway, thank you @readwithjamie. 

Until next time,

Kara

What My Sister Knew

From the startling opener, to the final horrific scene, Nina Laurin had me eager to discover What My Sister Knew. 

This gripping story about twins kept me hanging on and full of anticipation. There was plenty of speculation about what really happened to Andrea and Eli and their parents in the house fire all those years ago. 
Eli is out of prison and trying to see Andrea. The chase is on...

I enjoyed the going back & forth from the present day, to 15 years ago, before the fire, to the novel written about the murders.

Author Laurin gave some good descriptions and comparisons: 
I felt Andrea's queasiness and pain from the 'mean girls' incidents with Leeanne, her step sister. It was frankly refreshing to see that she hated her, didn't have the need to try & desparately be likable to her stepsister. This was a realistic and honest side to a personality that we don't often see. 
It gives her character teeth. 

I can easily visualize the "postapocalyptic hideousness of Denver in the early spring", because I know Toronto sure looks disastrous in March & April. 

Andrea's fascination with the lighter, the sounds it makes, and its color was something I could picture.   

"Her eyes are a wishy-washy light brown, as if they couldn't decide what color they wanted to be." 

While reading this, I thought a few times, "and the plot thickens..." so kudos Laurin.

I received What My Sister Knew in a GoodReads giveaway. 

Until next time,

Kara  

Such a Fun Age

Several of us on IG are really enjoying discussing Such a Fun Age.

@butbooksarebetter2 @danythebookworm_ @lindsaytravelingsister @tammyroos
@travelingfriendsreads @travelingsistersread @torontobibliophile
This timely topic about living in the racially charged times we're in is also classic, don't you think?

I must applaud narrator Nicole Lewis! She's incredible, a skilled actor who got all the fantastic dialogue down so that I can't imagine reading it. For me, this book is meant to be listened to.
When you've finished Such a Fun Age, join our discussion! There's so much to say about this book!

I'd like to discuss the controversial Kelley. So my question is:
Do you think Kelley fetishized black women? 
🚨 SPOILER alert in the comments! ⚠️
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My response:

I think Riley wrote it in such a way to give us tidbits here & there, so she let us consider and decide for ourselves - which is superb writing! I think you can be attracted to who you are attracted to. Who's to say who you find attractive, what your type is? Is it automatic that everyone have an attraction to who looks just like them?

The rest of the chat is here: https://www.instagram.com/p/B8pZ_Ukgq-r/

Until next time,

Kara